Vow to NEVER BE Like THEM
So many of us VOW to never be like them. Them??
Probably a parent or guardian – we vow to never yell (like them), discipline (like them), drink (like them), manage money (like them), shame & blame (like them), treat our significant other badly (like them) ...
The things we experience in our outer world is downloaded into our growing and impressionable little brains as youngsters.
Then become stresses that we respond to with a fight or flight energy to them. A complete doormat on one end of the teaching stick or massively dukes up defensive on the other end of the teaching stick.
Often you hear me talk about “what’s jacking with our mojo” here’s a piece of it.
As children and within our emotional development these stress related environments and incidents can become root causes and later as adults when we start to investigate why we feel as we feel.
React as we react.
Operate as we operate.
We can wrap this in a neat little package and call it adult issues – such as short & shitty, rageful, depressed, full of anxiety, addiction, control issues, codependency, complacency, etc.
There are many keys we need to help us unlock the doors to the areas of our lives that have trapped us and I love that these keys (aka tools) exist for you and for me.
Who we are today could be a complete illusion – of the phantom self.
It’s weird to think 80% of our “adulting – way of being” could possibly be
NOT who we really are.
NOT our Soulful self.
Yet I’m here to share it is entirely possible to get to – get back to – our original core essence – from what I’ve seen & experienced.
There is one thing – ONLY ONE – that is truly necessary though (from my experience) and that is a deep connection to the Divine; while we learn to override the patterns created in childhood that we’ve unknowingly built as a foundation in adulthood.
A client had big breakthroughs last week and ask – “is that coming through from the subconscious??”
The simple answer is yes.
The subconscious that gets us home without a thought – also runs our Insta-Reactions.
Unlocking these key factors releases us to feel serene, happy, enlightened, connected, grounded, whole, and more... There are two things I want you to leave with today
1) those breakthroughs like my client had last week where he ask "is that coming from my subconscious?" are #SpiritualAwakenings. Lots of people think a Spiritual Awakening is some kind of big burning bush – no. It's an understanding, clarity, an "ahha" where you know for sure the answers you've been looking for.
2) Miracles happen every dad-gum-dad - a Miracle is simply a shift in perception (that comes from an understanding). These two things are very common within my programs...and I LOVE that for me and for YOU.
Now, we can step into designing the “day and way” we desire to BE from a place of real wholehearted clarity. Do not bring any expectations along with you. Just BE who you desire to BE. Don't bring those OLD ass STORIES either - Re-write the Story and ONLY tell the NEW version.
To me it’s never been shadow work it’s always been “Thank God I finally understand” full of light – work.
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Miracle. What’s a miracle?? A shift in perception.
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Labels...Can't live with them and can't teach without them!
(little language warning)
My biggest share on labels is just don't get caught up in them and get or stay stuck. A label does not define you. You are NOT your label. Don't get confined by labels. It's okay to look at labels and learn from them or within what experts are saying, yet to stay there is unhealthy - my spin.
Learn and evolve via labels. Here's a shorty video that might help.
Love ya BIG, Let me know if you need more support.
And, anyone can take me up on my "2Hour Test Drive" coaching session.
It's my way of continuing my 24 years of volunteering.
Instead of driving across town I now volunteer within my business.
Don’t ya just LOVE a good #vibrational Switch-a-Roo??
Stepping of the merry-go-round of self-doubt for me required healing, reprocessing old stories, hurts &&& repositioning them, a real understanding from the inside OUT.
Stepping off the merry-go-round of self-doubt for me was learning how to STOP fixating on people, words, actions and situations outside of myself.
Stepping off the merry-go-round is a little constant – I’ve become committed to.
The more we understand our personal vibrations the more willing &&& excited we become to be
accountable & 97% responsible for the way
1) we speak to ourselves (aka self-talk); it changes naturally!
2) the way we treat ourselves (aka self like/love); also changes naturally.
3) Then, how we speak to and treat others...
I say it and say it often in my coaching practice, “We can speak without saying a word”.
When our energy about ”self” shifts there are NO WORDS really worthy or even necessary.... It just is.
The more we value ourselves naturally, the happier and more content we will be in everyday life. I believe this can’t be done from the head space and has to be done from the heart space.
The happier we become in everyday life, the less dependent we are on validation from others.
The more we naturally validate ourselves, the less vulnerable we are at work, in career decisions, relationships, w/colleagues, in friendships and MORE...
I LOVE THIS FOR ME &&& FOR YOU
Let’s be willing to step into conversations that lead us to that place where we feel &&& know we are good and we are “ENOUGH”.
Please share this post with someone you believe may not understand how their feelings about self - might be making them a target for upset &&& internal disturbances.
I know from experience we can NOT always see ourselves clearly in the middle
of the “messy mess”.
The water (aka the mind) is muddy & murky. This is what I call in coaching conversations “leading people out of the ditch” &&& helping them, supporting them, holding space for them, to get in back on a different, better, more creative ️path. And, when they feel it ️the good stuff snow balls!!
Does this teaching take away future challenges????
Nopie – not on this side of the grass!
YET how we handle contrast, challenges & conundrums (all #natural in life) is WAY easier and we are WAY happier &&& grounded within the process of living life.
Bigger Isn't Always Better
Lots of #beautiful #people today are thinking...
What can I do?
What can I do better??
What can I do differently?
Just know this...
As you think it through.
✔️Bigger isn’t always better; you can design what you want and how you want it to go, be &&& flow.
#KISS – keeping it simple sweetness
✔️Everyone is not going to like you; you can be the juiciest peach 🍑 in the orchard and some peeps DO NOT like peaches. It’s all GOOD.
✔️Fear rises at every level regarding life and business; I love teachings that are basic and foundational yet support us at every level. Then I love to focus on growing more and more foundational tools 🛠 🧰 ⚒️ .
✔️Being alone; doing it alone.
I’m so glad I incorporated a personal coach & business coach along the way.
Don’t do #life or #business or #career alone.
✔️Your (my) community is not for a bunch of people; it’s for a FEW people who love to learn tips that help them reach new amazing levels of thinking, thought processes. AND with that – design a life and way of being they LOVE. Let my community be a bunch of Hell YES people!!
My community on Facebook: #LetsHuman (Unlocking US)
We all need to be surrounded with people who “speak LIFE & LOVE”
into us –
on to us –
Love More with Theresa and her FB page Let's Human (Unlocking US) is about expanding horizons (aka the #mind ) and I love to share this via #scriptwriting >>> stepping away from what “everybody” does OR is doing, getting with Source, Soul & Self has been my 2nd greatest gift!
I’d love to share the HOW!
Click here for my 2Hour “test drive” #coaching #session under Programs on the website to schedule.
This is dedicated #volunteer time and on me. I #love that – for me – and for YOU.
I'm a 'Perspective Detective' and I help clients become 'Perspective Detectives' in their own lives. I've created Signature Programs for discovering and uncovering the WHY we do the things WE do, ACT the way we ACT, STRUGGLE in certain areas of life and SOAR in others...