Let us awaken to the idea that there is nothing going on in our relationships of the home
                                                                     that observation cannot see. 
With observation we find patterns and programs impressed upon us at an early age via the authorities in our life – at the time.  Some patterns and programs we adopt from our ‘perspective’ at the current time, our emotional intelligence at the time, our fears at the time and so on…  Sometimes we were taught and they are along the lines of – to deny, hide, suppress, blame, shame, act out, keep secrets and more.
 
A coaching call yesterday revealed insight around the ‘mother’n law’ position.  That’s a good one, huh? 
As a ‘perspective detective’ we got on the phone to discover and uncover insights as to

1) how the conundrum started
2) what it felt like at the time and what it feels like now
3) how had the conundrum progressed
4) is it real or somewhat made up (aka how have we processed the feelings and information available)  
5) why do we need approval
6) who and what is it really affecting
7) and the idea or possibilities available to us now and going forward
8) why is it important for this conundrum to head toward healing
9) how might the script or story transition – if this conundrum were to dissolve or dissipate  
10) were there any mistakes that might have been made by the client in the onset of this disturbance – and more!

And, last but not least – addressing all this without “a word” being said to the “mother’n law” – that’s so fun! 

PLUS, this client got a great feel around HOW TO become her OWN ‘perspective detective’ in life. 

              We little humans think we have to talk and explain E V E R Y T H I N G to others…

There is ONE THING I frick’n love teaching and sharing with my clients – we can create great change and co-create an amazing impact – without saying a word!

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What is a Miracle?  It's as simple as a shift in perception!  Do you LOVE Miracles?  I do....
YES, there are BIG amazing miracles that happen YET also little shifts in perception with the work I do with clients that I often refer to as a #SpiritualAwakening and they are seen and celebrated as Miracles - a shift in perception. 

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Until next time - BIG LOVE, Theresa

24 years ago, when I stepped into my original detective role of trying to figure out “what the hey” was causing all my personal trauma & drama.  I attended a convention and bought THIS STICKER for my rear-view mirror. 
It read,
          “You’re looking at the problem.”  
 
When we’re down and out, feeling like crap-ola that’s kind of the last thing we want to hear/embrace {aka take on}.  The truth is we don’t have to take it ON; it’s better if we can just be open to or willing to investigate – the possibility – that we might be attracting the challenges to our life. 
 AND, here’s the celebratory – kicker – much of the time it’s unconsciously OR unknowingly. These discoveries are the #goosebumpy ones!
 
If I were going to share the most difficult challenge within my coaching work first week or two – it would be getting peeps to talk about #self.  Most ALL want to talk about she, he, they, the incident or accident, etc.
I don’t STOP 🛑 this in the beginning because being heard is a vital part of healing. 
 
–TOOL SHARE – We heal when we’re heard. Really listen to your loved ones. Make sure they feel heard.
DO NOT talk, fix, or offer your spin unless specifically asked. 
 
About 3 weeks into the 6-week program it’s time to transition to “what we can change”. That would be us – our perspective.  Our perceptions. 
 
–TOOL SHARE – We talk about and have homework around MISTAKES we’ve made. Mistakes are a natural part of living, connecting and being on this earth.  I’m very comfortable with owning my mistakes most of the time without embarrassment, blame or shame YET I’m 
          COMFORTABLE WITH THIS 
       BECAUSE I WAS TAUGHT THIS. 
An important teaching. 
 
ATTN: WE ARE NOT TAUGHT some of the most valuable skill sets for living life and being kind and loving to ourselves &&& others. Way more important for most peeps than frick’n algebra. Just say’n. 
 
          “You’re looking at the problem” 
isn’t degrading or hard it’s magical when we put our dukes down, pause defensiveness, play detective, discover & uncover, etc. 
It’s the best feeling in the world to “FEEL the FEELS” of Ahhhhhh....Wowzer‼️I had no idea‼️
 
Love ya BIG,
Theresa 
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