Happiness. Contentment. Serenity. Safety. Trust – ain’t out there – not long-term. Meaning you could feel it from meeting someone special yet it’s seldom sustainable.
Making another human responsible for those things listed above is for sure a pedestal that can’t withstand the pressure.
It’s a big ole energy suck, too.
Feeling the Feels of these core desires is found within self and with that you’re happy, content, serene, joyful, feel safe, have a natural confidence, etc. Making meeting and sharing with someone else a “cherry & whip cream on top” experience...
The same is true in friendship, collaboration, business, client relationships, etc. Loving self-first allows us to hold loving space for others to be themselves and we’re able to celebrate differences with them – love unconditionally.
Often in coaching conversations I’ll say “play with this idea” or “listen to this” and we’ll discuss next time or “what are your thoughts around this idea or how does this feel” to you??
I love helping people “feel into” the possible insight around a topic vs agreement or disagreement.
Tossing around different concepts opens up windows & doors to the Soul – which is where miracles expose themselves and light you UP UP UP.
What’s the definition of a #miracle ??
The tiniest shift in #perception
I'm a 'Perspective Detective' and I help clients become 'Perspective Detectives' in their own lives. I've created Signature Programs for discovering and uncovering the WHY we do the things WE do, ACT the way we ACT, STRUGGLE in certain areas of life and SOAR in others...