Let us awaken to the idea that there is nothing going on in our relationships of the home
that observation cannot see.
With observation we find patterns and programs impressed upon us at an early age via the authorities in our life – at the time. Some patterns and programs we adopt from our ‘perspective’ at the current time, our emotional intelligence at the time, our fears at the time and so on… Sometimes we were taught and they are along the lines of – to deny, hide, suppress, blame, shame, act out, keep secrets and more.
A coaching call yesterday revealed insight around the ‘mother’n law’ position. That’s a good one, huh?
As a ‘perspective detective’ we got on the phone to discover and uncover insights as to
1) how the conundrum started
2) what it felt like at the time and what it feels like now
3) how had the conundrum progressed
4) is it real or somewhat made up (aka how have we processed the feelings and information available)
5) why do we need approval
6) who and what is it really affecting
7) and the idea or possibilities available to us now and going forward
8) why is it important for this conundrum to head toward healing
9) how might the script or story transition – if this conundrum were to dissolve or dissipate
10) were there any mistakes that might have been made by the client in the onset of this disturbance – and more!
And, last but not least – addressing all this without “a word” being said to the “mother’n law” – that’s so fun!
PLUS, this client got a great feel around HOW TO become her OWN ‘perspective detective’ in life.
We little humans think we have to talk and explain E V E R Y T H I N G to others…
There is ONE THING I frick’n love teaching and sharing with my clients – we can create great change and co-create an amazing impact – without saying a word!
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I'm a 'Perspective Detective' and I help clients become 'Perspective Detectives' in their own lives. I've created Signature Programs for discovering and uncovering the WHY we do the things WE do, ACT the way we ACT, STRUGGLE in certain areas of life and SOAR in others...